- Spending time in nature (Out-door sex) ๐ฟ- Painting, photography, and all things creative ๐จ๐ธ- Reading and learning things that help me grow, like erotic literature- Music that relaxes or turns me on ๐ง- Taking care of my physical and mental wellbeing with good sex ๐งโโ๏ธ. - People who don't know what they want and don't take risks to live life to the fullest ๐.- The lack of mystery; things that are too obvious bore me quickly ๐ฌ๏ธ.- Excessive ego; I prefer humility in complicity ๐ค.