What turns me on:• being slowly undressed with eyes• soft touches along my neck and back• deep voice and whispered confident commands• feeling desired and a little bit “forbidden”• the dance between submission and control (with someone I trust). What turns me off:• rudeness without any prior agreement• rushing me and not letting me enjoy the moment• complete lack of creativity and repetition• trying to control me without my clear yes• ignoring my reactions and boundaries• strong smell of cigarettes/alcohol on cam.